Not Alone Newbury
A local support group for anyone affected by pregnancy loss or baby loss.
When my twin boys Oscar and Max were born too early, most of the support groups I found were online. I just really wanted to talk to someone in person.
Catherine - Not Alone Newbury Facilitator
FAQs
Who is the group for?
For anyone who has been affected by the loss of a pregnancy or the loss of a baby. We encourage a safe and supportive environment for anyone and everyone.
*We do ask that this is kept an adult only space. However, if you are under 18 and have experienced a loss yourself, drop us an email.
When can I attend?
Our groups are every 1st and 3rd Sunday of the month between 4pm and 5.30pm. There is no obligation to stay for the entire session but if you could make the start time that would be fantastic. It is important to us to hold space for those who need it but we also understand that this is really hard, it’s ok to step back if and when you need to.
Why do you say pregnancy loss and baby loss?
We recognise that everyone uses their own terminology for their own experience. Some people prefer to refer to their loss as a pregnancy loss whereas others use baby loss. Everything is ok as everything is individual however, when putting this group together, we thought experiences were more ‘commonly’ referred to as a ‘loss’. We’re sorry if that isn't quite right for you.
I personally remembering saying to my husband one day “our sons aren’t KEYS, I haven’t misplaced them! I know exactly where they are!”
Catherine - Group Facilitator
How do I attend?
No booking required, simply turn up. We appreciate attending a new group can be daunting for most people, know that there will be a friendly face to welcome you if and when you choose to join us.
Where is it?
Held at the very homely Buick Mackane in West Mills, in the heart of Newbury. Parking is available for a small number of cars, though alternative parking can be found nearby.
Buick Mackane, 14 West Mills, Newbury, RG14 5HG
What does a group look like?
Honestly, we’re not sure yet!
Know that we will endeavour to create a safe and respectful place for all. It doesn’t matter what type of experience you’ve had, when it happened or if you’ve ever had any support before. We simply are looking to build connections, signpost to resources where we can, validate you and your experience, empower you to express your feelings and, of course, let you know that you are not alone.
Do I have to talk?
You do not have to speak if you do not wish to. If you simply want to come along and listen for your first session (or two) that’s ok. However, we hope that every person who attends our groups will eventually feel able to tell us more about how they are feeling.
Who set up the group?
Set up by parents who have experienced a loss, or multiple losses of their own.
It’s important for us to show our community in Newbury that they are not alone.
Do I have to attend every session?
No! We understand that sometimes you might really need us and other times, perhaps not so much. That’s ok!
The group is run with no sign up required, if you find that the day feels right to you, then come along. If a session doesn’t work for you for whatever reason, we’ll see you soon.